“I just don’t like all the shirts and clothes that are out now that say things like ‘princess’ and ‘spoiled’ and stuff.”
I overheard a conversation a while back where one mother was lamenting to another about the graphic apparel that’s out now for babies and children. There are so many things that say “spoiled brat,” “I get what I want,” “little princess,” and the like.
Overhearing this comment got me thinking: what’s my opinion on the matter? (I truly hadn’t given it too much thought up until this point.) But, since I have a several nieces and nephews now (including the blessing of TWO of them being our godchildren) and a ton of friends with small children, I want to make sure that I’m providing the best example of Christian living. (At least, that’s the hope.)
Immediately, I first thought, “I agree – these hardly seems like attributes you want to accredit your child” (especially if they’re wearing “spoiled brat” while having another meltdown in public – not helping the cause, mamí). But, then I started to reevaluate my thoughts. Okay, so ‘spoiled brat’ isn’t exactly promoting the Christian virtue of generosity and humility, but what about calling a little one ‘prince’ or ‘princess’?
“For those who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God … and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ if only we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him.“
Romans 8: 14, 17
“For a child is born to us, a son is given to us; upon his shoulder dominion rests. They name him Wonder-Counselor, God-Hero, Father-Forever, Prince of Peace.“
St. Paul tells us that we are not only brothers and sisters in Christ but also brothers and sisters OF Christ. And, Isaiah references the coming of the Christ-child as the PRINCE of Peace. So, if we are children of God and joint heirs with Christ (His brothers and sisters) and He is the Prince of Peace, then wouldn’t this make us princes and princesses?
I absolutely love how Sheila Walsh has taken this to heart. She has capitalized on the secular focus of the term and reclaimed it for Christ as she created a whole children’s series based on this same logic. Her books star a fictional little girl, Gigi, God’s Little Princess, who isn’t always perfect, but she is taught by her parents that she is loved as a daughter of God, through it all. And, so as to not leave the boys out, she has a wonderful series for boys, too, called, “Will, God’s Mighty Warrior.” You can bet that these books will be coming around more often in our family soon – the stories are wholesome and the illustrations are superb. (No, I’m not getting paid for this promo – I really am just a fan.)
Anyway, so the next time I’m walking through the baby section in Target (which if you know me at all, you know this will be more than likely sometime within the next 24-48 hours), I might just be picking up a little “princess” sleeper (or two …) for one of the many sweet little girls (and princesses) in my life.
Big thanks to Sheila Walsh for her work. (Also, bonus is that she currently lives in Frisco – who knew?!)